Feminine Success Codes Seminar
Prosperity Power Practices with Claire Zammit, Ph.D
Welcome to the Replay of the Session!
Women and Wealth: few topics are more important in a conversation about creating authentic success in our lives!
As self-actualizing women, our desire to access financial resources and to prosper in our lives is rooted with our desire to create true and lasting wellbeing for ourselves, others and our world.
Yet, our relationship with money as a vehicle to facilitating access to the resources we need to thrive has been conflicted by so many tensions that mirror our own relationship with power.
To become the woman you are meant to be, it’s essential to discover how to generate the financial resources and prosperity that you need to create. This month we are going to explore the blocks and barriers we have as women to creating true and lasting financial freedom and empowerment in our lives. We are holding a deep and powerful space together to release:
- Feeling guilty or afraid to charge what you believe you are worth
- Holding back from making the investments in yourself you know you need to make to succeed
- Feeling guilty for having more than others
- Feeling shame for having less than others
- Being fearful of losing what you have by making the wrong investments
- Internalized scarcity beliefs
- Self-doubt about your ability to manage money/budgets
- A lack of clarity about the pathway to making the transition from your day job to your dream career
And in place of these, together we will step into the Power Practices that support us to:
- Connect with our power to generate the financial wellbeing and access the resources we need to thrive
- Experience flow, confidence and security in our relationship to money
- Vision the pathway to making a living from our gifts, talents and creative projects
- Feel empowered as we plan for a secure a retirement
- Increase our earning power while also having time and space to pursue our higher development and expression
- Create the financial freedom to fulfill our desires for fun, adventure and creative play
- And much more!
This month we also bring new power and awareness to the blocks and barriers at the center of the wage gap for women and also awareness of how these barriers have been even greater for women of color. As we stand together, holding this space for these critical and courageous conversations, and for a deep dive into the Prosperity Power Practices, I cannot wait to hear what shifts for you.
NOTE: This is the replay of the live session and was designed to be interactive!
We held a space for you in our circle during the live event if you didn’t attend in person at the time.
Throughout the session Claire will ask thought provoking questions and guide you through reflective practices.
We invite you to post your answers to the questions Claire asks of you in the seminar. Please post those in the comments section below.
Power Circle with Senior Feminine Power Coaches
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COMMENTS and REFLECTIONS
Share your answers to the reflection questions in the seminar and TAKEAWAYS from the practices in the comments here! After you have posted, we invite you to respond to three other posts.
A new money awareness story came up for me that is profound: Earning a lot of money isn’t safe. The more money I make, the more visible I become. Being visible is not safe because being visible will result in getting unwanted attention (trauma). And yet I hung my value on professional and financial success and craved the acknowledgment money – I believed – provides. Which kept me in lack and scarcity.
My new story is that money = safety. That I am safe as Source and divine guidance are always holding me and keeping me safe.
Powerful #newstory Daniela!! Thank you for sharing. Standing with you and for you and all that is yearning to flow to and through you now. Much love and many blessings xoxo Debbie – Feminine Power Support Team
I SO love this!! Your new story really resonates with me as well!
I was blessed with growing resources that fulfilled my desire to comfortably invest, share and spend. As a 3rd generation Southern California Realtor, in the mid 60s, I was on fire. All that time, I perfected the covering up of my childhood trauma so that no one would ever know who I was inside. I built a persona of wealth, sophistication and confidence that gave me leverage dealing with people of many walks of life. As the trauma faded I healed but that person I projected was me following my dream. My short time in University gave me a good… Read more »
Prosperity of wealth; Gives me a feeling of comfort and freedom. I’m in a position to share where it will help. What a rich feeling this gives, me.
To have financial prosperity now is to never worry about my future.
Gratitude for an abundance of wealth serves to grow it. Ah Yes, my heart is filled with thankfulness and appreciation for my abundance. I am relaxing knowing that I have the funds to buy a home, to wisely invest in stocks, to set up University funds for my grandchildren and to finance my work in becoming an author and speaker.
In this last month I’ve been focused on the recognition of my gifts. In doing this, I’ve let go of my sisters hurtful way of making fun of my enthusiasm and forward moving into my writing and speaking. I’m listening to my inner voice and strength. There is no more time for me to waste it on anyone that throws negativity my way. I feel very empowered standing for me to be seen. I recognise that I’m the most important , most valuable child of God, who has given me amazing gifts that need to come forth and be celebrated.… Read more »
Yes, you must just laugh off the naysayers, surround yourself with supportive people 🙂
In this month’s focus on prosperity, I had to look at money shame. I realised how much it had been impacting my life from a young age… Having more than other parts of my family and when travelling abroad and having too little by way of comparison with peers in the UK and where I thought I should be at my age (40). I have felt the shame when asking for support and getting a new mortgage deal etc… I then had an amazing day when I fell about laughing in knowing that I am rich. I own my house… Read more »
Clover, what an exciting shift you’ve made! You are a powerful magnet for resource, connections and opportunities and it certainly sounds like you are creating the life you desire. xo Trecia and The Feminine Power Team
For me spending isn’t a giant issue. If anything I could stand to spend on myself more, in a power statement way to combat the false belief of ‘I don’t have’. What’s really true is I have more than I think I do. And I should start really anchoring into that. Earning!!! What can I do right now to give more value? What a good question!!! I’m pushing back against an idea of ‘I can’t make money doing what I love to do’. I was so glad to see that named on this page. I’m certain there are things I… Read more »
Wow!” Loving reading the unfolding wisdom and your insights Kim 🙂 deepest acknowledgement and appreciation for YOU, the power of choice you give yourself through your naming. Standing with you and all that is opening up to and through you!! Much love and many blessings Debbie xoxo FP Team
My win this month is I gave! Claire had spoken about giving as a route into living our purpose and stepping into action with what we want to do. I am writing a book on women entrepreneurs and I also want to launch my mentorship programs. I decided that instead of trying to pitch and get clients that I would give to other women who are building their businesses and offer support and ideas. I reached out to women entrepreneur groups on Facebook and interviewed 20 women and have several more set up. They got a lot out of it,… Read more »
Brilliant Leslie ??
Celebrating you and your win in the field of reciprocity ? Love and many blessings Debbie xoxo FP Team
I just had a huge realisation! I am always in debt because not only do I continually over-give of myself and my time to help others, I am always over-spending too as if I continually have to prove my worth financially! I now need to reconcile this approach with love and awareness and address this need to be seen to be something more than I already am. I am enough already
Niki…”your very existence is more than enough” much love and many blessings Debbie xoxo FP Team
to let go of my fear of visibility and breakthrough to the understanding and connection with the idea that abundance is allowed and that I am deserving
Wow!! Standing with you and for you Niki!! You are deserving!!! Much love and many blessings xoxo Debbie – Feminine Power Support Team
my intention this month is to finally stop procrastinating and work on finishing my website and social media platform to truly reflect where I am going and to seek the support of those with skills I don’t have to help me do this
That’s great Niki!
empowered prosperity feels like confidence. It feels like having the innate knowing that I can connect with my inner voice and the greater source to bring forward into being what I or others need at any given time
My new money story: I spend my time and money consciously, with clear intention. I am a confident financial investor
Gorgeous Power Statement, Tania! xoTrecia
Loved this. Especially the reflections on retirement. Thank you!
My intention of the month is to completely Change my shame based attitude to money, that I have nothing to offer to be payed for, that I have to work really hard just to get “bread crumbs”, to earn just enough to merely survive.
Standing with you and for you Irina, as you name and claim your true value!! Much love and many blessings xoxo Debbie – Feminine Power Support Team
Dear Irina, I went through a miserable time when unable to sell the home I had just built and unwisely invested all of my money. The market was dropping faster them I was able to lower the price of the listing and all the sharks were waiting to take the home from me. I was in Foreclosure with one final week to clear the debt and reinstate the loan. No one could help me other then bringing in more buyers eager to assume my loans and take the house before the deadline. The utilities were giving me reductions on the… Read more »
Value creation and prosperity – investing beyond finances, invest time and energy, attract and access resources…
Dearest Mia, sensing into the expansiveness and your alignment with value creation and prosperity!!! Wow!! Excited to see what opens up to you and through from here. Much love and blessings Debbie xoxo Feminine Success Codes Team
The smallest shift I can make this month is…to accept the financial responsibility for my family for the next year, and work hard to get as much paid work as possible, with priority to longer-term contracts.
And as you take one step and then the next Mia, knowing yes the smallest shift you can take this month matters – I invite you to gently embrace another part of your changing story, you named and lean into those ” receptive, creative and courageous!” parts of you too!! Debbie xoxo FP Support Team
I do have the power to attract resources.
Yes! Yes! Yes! Mia xxx Debbie
Affirmation: I have the ability, capacity, competencies and talent to work full-time in a job where I am paid well in recognition of my contribution.
Powerful Mia!! And sensing into the receptivity and generative nature of being so beautifully aligned as you glide through our world from this place of alignment through affirmation!! And “so it is and so it shall be!!” Blessings Debbie xoxo FP Support Team ?
Changing story helps become more receptive, creative and courageous!
Yes! Yes! Yes! Mia, powerful naming and claiming!! xoxo
You are so right! Feeling financially blocked leads to staying immobile and closing your eyes for opportunities
Deeply acknowledge and appreciate all the wisdom, insights and the power of choice you give yourself through all your naming. And all that is opening up to and through you in the ‘shift’ much love and many blessings Debbie xoxo FP Team
Shame about involuntary debt!
SHAME – about receiving financial support from others and not being able to fully take responsibility for myself and my family! YES!
Together with my husband I have decided to work actively to get a well-paid full-time job (on a permanent or freelance basis) in my core business, for the first time since I had children, while he takes a year of “parental leave” by only accepting the most pertinent concerts, musically and financially. If we succeed, this synergy may enable both of us to grow personally and professionally!
For the first time I have been shortlisted for the recruitment process for specialist position in the UN – because I chose to put the energy and time into applying to a relevant position. I did the written test. Fingers crossed for the next steps.
WOW!! Yes, yes, yes Mia – with the wind beneath your wings, and your aligned energy, time and the relevance for you and the position! Supported by your empowerment, self -actualization, and appreciating your value!! I invite you to hold the outcome neither too tightly, nor too loosely, and feeling into ‘everything is working out perfectly for me’ from making your aligned choice, and taking action from there!! Standing with you and for you. Love and blessings Debbie xoxo Feminine Success Codes Team
I like the idea of prosperity as empowerment and self-actualisation… quality of life!!!
My intention for the month is to make a shift in FEELING. From feeling as if there is never enough (mostly time, but sometimes support, resources, friendships, and/or money). I intend to shift to feeling that I having enough (and more than enough) in my daily experience. I’ve recently completed Leonie Dawson’s Money course (highly recommend it) and have now become a more responsible custodian of money, including how I manage my finances. I have spend and save ‘buckets’ set up based on the ‘Barefoot Investor’ system.
Feeling into the ‘shift’ beautiful Tania, through your words and naming! Standing with you and for you, and from this place all the power, possibilities, curiosity and wonder that opens up to you and through you…feels so expansive and juicy ?!!! And “Barefoot Investor” system…oooooh I feel sparks of deep, rich, curiosity and a picture of group of beautiful women of our Earth, connected to the wealth of resources through our feet grounding beneath us!! Love and blessings Debbie xoxo Feminine Success Codes Team
Throughout the years, I have examined many reasons why I haven’t had the full success I expected from my career. Yet, this time, when I looked at the old story, I realized the message in my family was creating a blockage. I remember my beloved grandmothers, ALWAYS, insisting to marry someone with money. I know they wanted the very best for me. But the deeper message is that I don’t have the ability to be abundant on my own. That someone outside of me is the only way to experience abundance in my life. That feels so heartbreaking to… Read more »
Elaine, so beautiful!!! Standing with and for you as the power of the old story reveals itself and unfolds, and presents you with CHOICE and leaning into the deeper truth ?. From this place of love, and greater knowing you name, your GrandMothers wanting the best for you, based I imagine on different times and their own life experiences. Your instintive knowing as you experienced through the goodness and abundance of already being connected and the Goddess cards and your trip to Ireland, and seeing that you already have the power of choice as you continue on your journey of… Read more »
Visioning my financial prosperity looks like Beauty being primary, throughout all my experience. It sounds and feels like being equally effective and uplifting as the women I admire. My breakthrough is in knowing that what I have to offer in my new business is worth the general charge and that I will be charging and receiving that amount! My intention is to practice and begin communicating on its value for potential clients. My mom’s example and influence on my money story was that I could only earn sufficiently if I did what didn’t inspire me nor use my talents. My… Read more »
Loving your awareness Rosalyn and seeing this as a key to your own actualization. Much love, Adria
Thanks, Adria?
As I practice talking my walk, miracles of guidance have come. I’m so grateful for this co-creating (replacing anxious striving or “waiting,”) and for its allowing me to believe that I can offer and receive tremendous value!
My intention is to earn more and help my mother and parents. My goal is earning 15.000 per month even though I am not seeing the how
Beautiful and very clear intention Susan. Blessings, Adria
My old story: I do so much for you – dear customer, so much more than we first talked about.
I´m not telling you but I expect you to give me more than we first talked about. I´m not telling you because we agreed upon a price.
New story: This is what we agreed upon. Now you want/need more. I love doing this work for you. This is the price.
Eva Maria, standing with you, for you, and your VALUE and agreements being honoured!!! And the love for your work and your customers ?. Knowing that in the field of reciprocity and abundance, offering, delivering and recieving with gratitude and grace contribute to creating those beautiful deepening of relationships, including those with ourselves ?. Love and blessings xoxo Debbie Feminine Success Codes Team
I am establishing an incredibly diverse and robust ecosystem of wealth, financially, spiritually, mentally, emotionally and on in relationships. I have riches beyond my wildest imaginings. My income streams are diverse, stable and variable, weaving a rich tapestry of resources from which to draw from. My life is one of abundance!
Wow, wow, wow Devon. Goosebumps!!! Standing with you and for you in all this power, possibilibility, and adundance!!! Love and blessings Debbie xoxo Feminine Success Codes Team
Since l am retired then the area of earning is rolled out. During previous years I have invested in property which is now giving me the extra income I need. However I noticed during the lockdown my spending was dropped by more than 50% which made me really rethinking my way of spending. My focus for this moth will be keeping an inventory of my spending without affecting my giving to others as I am a giver by nature.
Celebrating you Eman, and your newly developed awareness, as you curiously “play” with making aligned choices over your spending, excited to see what opens up through you next ?. Many blessings Debbie xoxo Feminine Success Codes Team
Looking into the 4 areas of earning, spending, investing, giving, I’ve realized that each area has facets I see a need of addressing. The two biggest are my earning capability and investment. While I’ve been growing in my earning capacities (and my savings) so far with every new job I‘ve never felt financially appreciated enough for my input, energy and capabilities. Also, while regularly investing in myself I’ve never invested in anything else. I’ve realized I might have trust issues in investing in something that´s outside of me. Area to look into. Another pattern that came into my attention was… Read more »
Lubica, powerful naming of the both your vision ?and the old pattern – standing with you and for you and aligned prosperity ? and all that opens up from this place. Many blessings Debbie xoxo Feminine Power Team
Lubica, resonating with your sharing. Time to break the old pattern.
Sharing a quote with you from the discourse of an ancient indian scripture on the ‘Aphorism of Love’: “Devotion is the beginning of action, and the end of action; and throughout is passion that drives the pursue of knowledge and the fruit is bliss”
I invite you to break out from the old pattern with passion to reach your new blissful you.
xoxo
Following the Success Codes about Prosperity and having Claire ending by sharing the energy of the Indian Goddess Lakshmi, I would love to share this below text with you all which I feel is aligned with what Claire shared during the discourse. Lakshmi: The Eight Wealths from the book Magical Stories of The Divine Mother Lakshmi is the Goddess of Wealth & Prosperity. Wealth is a vital ingredient bestowed upon us for the maintenance and progress of life. It is much more than just having money. It means abundance in the knowledge, skills, and talents. It is the… Read more »
Thank you, Lavinia, for sharing. These are all valuable aspects of this energy and I can see how are they connected and need and build upon each other. I loved that sentence “Wealth is a vital ingredient bestowed upon us for the maintenance and progress of life.” There is something in it that wants to speak to me. Just as the “Goal” does.
Welcome Lubica. Indeed valuable aspects of this energy and their interconnectedness and how we build on to be who we are and ought to blossom into xoxo
Love and Light Lavina?, beautiful. Thank you for sharing these powerfully beautiful words from the Goddess Lakshimi and the Magical stories of the Divine Mother, inspired by and following the SC call with Claire.
“Wealth & Prosperity meaning abundance in the knowledge, skills, and talents, and the energy that symbolises the complete spiritual and material well-being of a person”.
Much love and many blessings to you xoxo Debbie – Feminine Success Codes Team
Thanks you Debbie. Indeed when Claire mentioned it, remembered I had a book which I have lost track of and realised that thanks to Claire a reminded to be reconnected to our feminine energies and it resonated so deeply that I wanted to share with you all for us to go deep and get out all the potentials that we have already within. xoxo
Thank you so much Lavinia!! I love this post, this is really great and gives me new perspectives in my life. ?
To feel being in prosperity would be joyful and give me energy to give love and support to others
Beautiful Julie, standing with you in the feelings of prosperity, and all that opens up through this. Many blessings – Debbie xoxo – Feminine Power Success Codes Team
To sell 10 of my new courses and feel rewarded.
Karin, as we say in Feminine Power “and so it is and so it shall be” Many blessings – Debbie xoxo – Feminine Power Success Codes Team
Looks like being in my beautiful new home, writing books and painting, having family around and feeling so relaxed.
I love this. Can I come visit when you have this house? Standing with you & for you!
the family dynamic was that men earned and women were grateful and if your father was poor that was hard luck you just had to stand by while others were “lucky’. Earning was very hard work. If you didn’t have academic credentials you would never earn anything and therefore I was not going to achieve financially, because Im not academic.
For me prosperity looks and feels effortless. It is a seamless interaction between myself and the universe and I am working on cultivating this connection
Standing with you and for you Niki and all that opens up from here!! Many blessings – Debbie xoxo – Feminine Power Success Codes Team
I could enhance my prosperity by offering more of my gifts. I stay in a quandary of how much I want to work. I’m comfortably retired so I don’t need the income (especially now that I’m not traveling abroad so much) and I struggle between, I could be doing more and I’m not doing enough. I also have a story that what I want to give, people don’t know they want it.
Wins from last month: a new client and a free offering that benefited friends who were unfamiliar with my coaching gifts.
Denise, celebrating your wins with you!! And standing with you in the field of prosperity!! Many blessings – Debbie xoxo – Feminine Power Success Codes Team
Congratulations on your recent (and previous succession of) successes! You are putting out your offering, for those who want it to discover!
It takes courage to face the causes of my hiding from and distrusting people, to move beyond secretly knowing I could help. Thinking of dying with my song still in me puts it in perspective.
My focus right now is to spend less and earn more so I will be able to invest. This includes, real estate investing, and investing in my business.
I would like to also change my money story to having more than enough so I can always money for more than just rent and bills.
Powerful naming Mary!! Investing in a field of growth of expansion in you, your life, and business!! ? Many blessings – Debbie xoxo – Feminine Power Success Codes Team
Among the 4 areas: earning, saving, investing and giving – right now my main priority is to earn more – and receive less financial support from others…
Saving would be nice, but it requires having a financial margin…
I’ve been saving very small amounts to start, just the consistency is important, even though I have debt.
My mother has been over-supporting me financially – but none of us felt we had a choice! – I am 47 and still not financially independent – I still have months where I need help to cover the monthly expenses. I have never been able to save.
It got you here…she believes in you or wouldn’t do it. One day, you will reciprocate and she knows that.
Mia, thank you for this share. I’m in my late 40s also & a single parent of a 5yo and until around 2 years ago was very dependent on my family. I amen’t any longer BUT am barely scraping by! I am so ready to rise!!!!!!!!!! I’ve had enough of ‘just enough’!!!!!!!!!!
I have fund-raised once in my life while in highschool – and ended up winning a trip to Jerusalem, because I was the one who fund-raised most money at my school!
Wow Mia, love that field of recoprocity many blessings Debbie FP Support Team
I haven’t been in a position to give financially – I have received, and am still from time to time received financially support from my family, because I didn’t have a choice, and I am ashamed of that, because I have the competencies to be financially independent.
However, I am giving lot of my time, energy, attention, emotional support – sometimes I have little left for me…
The giving you’re doing is of huge benefit for all. Nothing can replace a mother’s love.
I have invested in real estate for the long term thanks to my husband, but it has meant short term sacrifice in terms of tighter budget for consumption.
Expand my earning potentials: skills and themes – theme: organisational innovation (area for further research+ develop through exposure to professional experiences);
skill: anticipation; change of habit: more strategic, proactive behaviour, be more realistic
Thank you, Claire! Such an opening! I needed this identification and acknowledgement of many of my internal barriers. And now, with my greater awareness of them, I know I can break through them and enter into a new way of being that attracts prosperity in flow with my unique gifts and ideal life.
Whitney, thank you, “and so it is and so it shall be!!” Excitedly standing with you and for you as prosperity flows in new aligned ways!! Many blessings – Debbie xoxo – Feminine Power Success Codes Team
Beautiful flow!
Bravo Whitney! What a fantastic breakthrough…now time to write your new story from the deeper truth around flow and prosperity, your gifts and talents, and ultimately the life you are creating. xoTrecia
Spending on consumption is not a problem for me – I practice limited spending because my unstable income. Permanent living expenses is the major issue: how to pay regular monthly expenses, when your income is irregular…
I have a similar issue… I’m a single mum of a 5yo… I earn JUST enough. JUST enough was ok when my son was small. My priority was survival & being a good mama to my little boy. He’s older now and I would love our world to grow larger. I’d love to give him, and indeed myself, more. I’m not a big one for consumption: rather it’s more rent, bills, childcare.
My pattern: My block is my lack of ability to earn, because I have been dividing myself in too many parts to provide for others, respond to the needs of my family – therefore I have not been able to focus my energy on ONE path (+ I have had several passions: music, my children, international development…). New story: focus on ONE area, develop my core competencies in that area, work strategically, think long-term – invest my time and energy. This also means making the choice NOT to accept all short term job offers, to free up time, space and… Read more »
So much clarity, Mia. You can really get your clients because you’ve been through it and powerfully support their success because you’re choosing it yourself!
I applaud you, Mia! Tim Ferriss made a similar point in The 4-Hour Workweek – he was approaching burnout and realised that approx 20% of his clients made him 80% of his income. So he focused on them! Our time & energy are of value! Well done!