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Hello Arielle,

I have a question for you I am hoping you can clarify.  I have placed my order with the Universe for a Soulmate. I’ve noticed that many people manifest in different time frames, some very fast, while others take a long time.  It’s been more than a year since I placed my order and my Soulmate has still not arrived.  Does this mean that I am doing something wrong, or the Universe feels I am not ready?

Any help would be appreciated.  I am stumped on this.




Dear Cindy,

Please remember the role that Divine Timing plays in all of life. While you may feel that you are absolutely ready for a Soulmate right now, the Universe, Karma, God, Goddess, the forces of Good, your angels, devas, and ancestors (or whoever and whatever you believe in) may have picked out the most perfect person for you and it’s just not TIME for you two to get together (yet).  

Can you be patient? Can you love your life right now? (And yourself?) Can you find new ways to savor the waiting?  Can you dream up new ways to give more love to the friends, family, and co-workers already surrounding you?  Have you truly released and healed any barriers to love within yourself or is there someone you have yet to forgive? (Hint: maybe yourself?)

Here’s one thing I can promise you: when you do finally meet your Soulmate you will inevitably discover that it was the perfect time for both of you and you will also know that he or she was worth the wait!

Wishing you love, laughter and magical kisses,





  1. I have been waiting for many, many years to find the one. I even stopped dating for four years to focus on my teenage daughter and my life. Many years ago, when I was giving up on finding a partner (I had been single for 12 years), I saw a vision. It just hit me as I passed this beautiful house with horses and large windows. I saw myself very content with a man that made me smile and glow with love. It was as if someone was telling me not to give up. That was four years ago. I feel like I have gone through so much growth with men and myself and relationships ,and a job change that was for the better, that will only prepare me for the vision that overtook me many years ago. I know that timing is something that we don’t decide on. So create your vision, believe in wholly, and love your life. It will come. Namaste.

  2. I have been married over 50 yrs.. I’ve known most of that time we should have never married..To Her … We are sooo different, she knows it, but she is A Libra.. They stick it out..I’m A scorpio 2 days before scorpio ends… I’ve tried
    To Divorce it always fell through. I’ve known this other woman for 3 yrs. or more.. We have never talked,just wave & smile if we meet on the road.. I have felt she is my soul mate.. The Angels indicated We Are..Their is difference in age..

    What is your answer to this.???? I have read so many Angel books I do here them sometimes but not always…No like Lorna Byrne Thanks !! J. W. Gardner