Soulmate love heals people while it stamps out loneliness and brings so much more happiness.

And as someone who teaches others how to manifest their soulmates, and who has been so blessed with the love of my own soulmate, I recently decided it was time to shine a light on the extraordinary benefits of living with your soulmate, as a way to encourage others.

Soulmate couples have a secret they rarely speak about: they feel fortunate to no longer have to search for true love, because they are living it every day. They realize how blessed they are to be spending their days in the embrace of their best friend, lover, and sacred partner.  

Rather than brag, or shout it from the rooftops, they quietly relish their relationship and give thanks, from a deep place of gratitude, that they have another day to spend together.

How do I know this?

Over the past nineteen blissful years with my soulmate, Brian, we’ve often talked about how blessed we are to be together and experience a relationship that exceeds our wildest dreams.   

I have also begun asking the other soulmate couples we know what life is like for them, and the answers I’ve heard are remarkably similar: in whispered and hushed tones, they have shared with me the wonder and beauty of their marriages.  

Why have we been whispering?

For two reasons: we are in awe of the sacredness of the union, and as my friend Monte Farber (co-author of The Soulmate Path) says, “it’s not polite to rub in other people’s faces how wonderful life can be when you are sharing it with your soulmate.”

Soulmate relationships can be compelling, intense, loving communions with a divine quality to them.

They are about connecting on a deep “soul” level as much as on every other dimension of human interaction.

The soulmate couples I’ve met choose to live with honesty, transparency, deeper love, devotion, openness, vulnerability and trust.

My husband, Brian Hilliard, explains it this way: “In a soulmate relationship one plus one does not equal two, it equals eleven. The love generated in this equation is a gift to the soulmate couple and to the world at large.”  

“The level of trust between soulmates is profound—and being able to trust another being on so many levels makes life so much easier.  You soulmate will mirror your best parts and your shadow self, giving you a chance to heal,” explains Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway, author of

Your Interfaith Wedding.

This is why the world needs soulmate couples to find each other—as many as possible, and as soon as possible. It is a surefire way to fill our planet with more love.

I asked some soulmates I know to share their unions, and here’s what they offered up:

“Living with your best friend and lover, the one who loves you for who you are, is a wonderful gift. He or she believes in you even when you can’t see it yourself.  We let go of fears, doubts and challenges more quickly because we know we are totally loved.”

–Otto & Susie Collins, authors of Magic Relationship Words

“I am experiencing a “full contentment” I have never known.  A relationship such as this does not happen TO someone, it happens WITH someone who is truly willing to cross the terror barrier of self-disclosure again and again to find that place of true connection.”

–Mary Morrissey, author of Building Your Field of Dreams

“I love knowing my husband/soulmate is perfect for me and that he feels the same way. I appreciate how we can both completely be ourselves with no need to pretend to be something we are not.”

–Peggy McColl, author of Your Destiny Switch

“Being in our soulmate relationship nourishes us and allows us to tell the truth all the way out loud to someone else who is as interested and committed to the truth!”

–David and Maryanne Comaroto-Raynal, Author of Hindsight (Maryanne’s latest book) and host of The Power of WE

“There is a total and utter richness that exists in being with one’s soulmate. It is utopia.”

–Carla Picardi

“Being a soulmate couple is a divine dance of both witnessing and being witnessed, celebrating and being celebrated. It’s that deep spiritual connection, unwavering acceptance and knowing that someone is always there to cover your back and will be with you no matter how bad a day you’re having.”
–Jay Vogt and Stephanie Bennett Vogt, author of Your Spacious Self: Clear Your Clutter and Discover Who You Are

“Even when Vic and I are apart, I am totally relaxed in knowing that his love and devotion surround me and protect me. That kinds of love instills great confidence and it truly is a blessing.”
–Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway, wedding officiant and author of Your Interfaith Wedding

“Everything tastes better when you share it with your soulmate.”

–Carlos Santana

“The soulmate relationship is both the most gratifying and the most challenging of all relationships. It’s all good and for the highest good.  It’s the evolution of the individual and collective soul of lovers once separated and now united.  It’s cosmic completion!

–Rev. Victor Fuhrman, co-author of Pet Prayers and Blessings

Some people fear that their day will never come, and that they will not be worthy of soulmate love.

Claire Zammit, my fellow co-creator of The Soulmate Mastermind online course, explained, “I always thought I was too much of this or not enough of that, but when I met my soulmate I realized I was just right for the person I was destined to be with. It’s amazing to be loved and appreciated so deeply just for being who you authentically are!”

Are soulmate relationships always blissful? No, of course not. Soulmates have work to do in the world and it begins in their own relationships.

“Your ‘Twin Flame’ will not only bring you to new heights of ecstasy but also push every one of your buttons and even some you never knew you had!,” adds Rev. Fuhrman.

Like all relationships, soulmate unions require time, energy, and attention. As Otto and Susie Collins so eloquently put it, “they require conscious effort to keep the relationship vibrant, alive and juicy.”  

Despite the occasional upset, argument or breakdown, soulmates are committed to working through their issues with honesty and transparency, knowing that the foundation for their love is strong enough to weather the storm.  

Perhaps Stephanie Bennett Vogt explains it best: “Having a soulmate is a beautiful dance towards wholeness if you’re willing to allow and learn from the inevitable messy bumps that go with the territory of being in a relationship.”

To discover how to find your soulmate, attend my brand-new, FREE, LIVE Online Event: “The 3 Keys to Using The Law of Attraction to Manifest Your Soulmate” 

About Arielle Ford

Arielle Ford is a leading personality in the personal growth and contemporary spirituality movement. For the past 25 years she has been living, teaching, and promoting consciousness through all forms of media. She is a relationship expert, speaker, and the producer and host of Evolving Wisdom’s Art of Love series.

Arielle is a gifted writer and the author of ten books including the international bestseller, THE SOULMATE SECRET: Manifest The Love of Your Life With The Law of Attraction. Her most recent book, Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate (Harper One) offers 16 simple, easy, and fun ways to reignite love, passion and respect to your relationship – no matter how many years it’s been since you first fell in love. With practical tools, techniques and actionable steps, this book provides everything you need to quickly create harmony and happiness on the path to a legendary love relationship. 

Arielle has been called “The Cupid of Consciousness” and “The Fairy Godmother of Love.” She lives in La Jolla, CA with her husband/soulmate, Brian Hilliard and their feline friends.

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